By Usman Salame
Having wet dream is something most persons shy away from discussing not because they feel it is shameful but because they do not want others to see them as perverts
Or someone who has a spiritual problem even though every man out there somehow some time most had to experience wet dream
In Africa where I come from, though to wrong religious belief, most people do shy away from discussing this very fact because a lot of Africans believe having a web dream is sinful, a spiritual problem, that needs spiritual cleansing or deliverance
And too, some others think that it is shameful even though it is not their doing, but something health science labeled as normal human biological factors that one should worry less about
So right in this article, we are to talk about ‘Having Wet Dream Is’t Normal or not: and also provide necessary Answers, Now let’s proceed in learning more about wet dreams and see if it is something we should be ashamed of
What is a Wet Dream?
Wet dreams or nocturnal emissions or nightfall is when you ejaculate or secret fluids in your vagina during sleep usually without your knowledge or doing.
These dreams are usually sexual intercourse which leads to the spurting of semen from the genitals.
This semen could cause a mess but what you should understand is that nothing is wrong with you and that you are perfectly healthy.
During sleep, the genitals become highly sensitive because there is more blood flow down there. Wet dreams also occur in young teenage girls, not just only on boys when they are deep in sleep.
Research has shown that most women have experienced their first wet dreams before they turn 21.
When it occurs, vaginal fluids are secreted. They might not necessarily reach orgasm but the secretion of the vaginal fluid is an indication that they were aroused or sexually excited in their sleep.
Many people are confused about this wet dream thing and seem to not be able to find answers to their questions, falsely in Africa, some were told they have a spiritual husband and is the spiritual husband that is responsible for their wet dream at night
Of course, it is a thing of confusion when something is happening to you, to your body and nobody seems to be saying anything meaningful about it. So below are questions young people usually ask when they start experiencing wet dreams:
Is Having Wet Dream Normal?
A simple answer to this is ‘YES We Dream Is Normal‘ though some people just want to know whether what is going on in their body is normal and if every other guy and girl out there is experiencing the same thing.
It is normal to have wet dreams during your teenage years, adolescent age, and even at your youth, but the frequency with which you experience it drops as you get older.
And yes, every other normal young teenager like you out there is going through the same thing, he has probably not said it out for the same reason you haven’t.
Is Having Wet Dream a Sin?
People ask whether the wet dream is a sin, well, no, the wet dream is not a sin and will never be a sin, so ignore any man or woman telling you that having a wet dream is a sinful act, for that is false. ‘WET DREAM IS NOT A SIN AND CAN NEVER BE, Is simple biological
This is biology, this is puberty going on and, normally, your body goes through changes, you just didn’t see it coming because no one told you
Or even if they did, they must have taken out some details which they thought you didn’t need to know, but they were wrong, you deserve to know everything going on in your body.
So, that explains why you freak out when you wake up in the morning and see semen on your underwear, relax, go clean yourself and be good, the truth remains that wet dream is not a sin
Is Having Wet Dream Spiritual?
In Africa Nigeria, there have been insinuations that a wet dream is a bad thing and so many people believe this.
That is why after a wet dream, when they wake up, they begin to pray, cast, and bind every evil force that wants to engage them in the spirit realm, or any spirit husband or spirit wife that wants to cause a problem to their physical life.
This is laughable because wet dreams are nothing close to having a spirit husband or wife or have anything to do with spiritualism; it is simply biology, and if you did your research well, you’d discover that it is normal and does not cause alarm.
Does Wet Dream Occur All the Time?
No, wet dreams only happen occasionally during puberty and it even drops as you get older.
Adults also experience wet dreams but not as frequently as when they were younger.
Although you do not know when wet dreams would occur, sometimes it comes unexpectedly, so you might just want to put some hygienic measures in place in case it occurs when you did not expect.
You could sleep with a towel inside your nightwear so that you do not mess your nightwear up or something. Or you could get up to wash your genitals if you feel uncomfortable with the mess, that is if is actually a mess
What Causes Wet Dreams?
Because your body is going through some hormonal changes during puberty—in order words, sexual maturity—you get wet dreams.
Sometimes in adults, it is due to the accumulated semen that your body has secreted, and it has to find a way to leave your body, especially when the storage is full, and the only way it could achieve that is to make you have a wet dream, and when it leaves your body during this time.
Research shows that some sleeping positions could induce wet dreams, especially sleeping with your stomach facing down, and two. If there’s a sensational feeling that your bed or your bed sheet gives your genitals, it could cause you to have a wet dream.
Should I Be Ashamed?
Some people are made to see the wet dream as something to be ashamed of, so they’d rather not say anything to avoid condemnation from people who think it is shameful.
But the thing is, something which you did not incite or instigate, how is it your fault?
That is where you should
View it from. You shouldn’t be ashamed of it, as matter of fact; it is fun, isn’t it? You do not need to see your religious leader because you had a wet dream. Rather
If you feel very uncomfortable with wet dreams and you want more explanations, you should visit your therapist, they’d have the answers to whatever you want to know about a wet dream.
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In settings like Nigeria, where almost everything is viewed with religious eyes, it is difficult to explain to some people that a wet dream is normal
Especially if they’ve already accepted it is spirit-related or a health problem. But rather than go with the bandwagon and agree blindly, you should do some research and speak to health experts because they have the perfect answers and are not overtly religious people.
Hope this answers all your question about having wet dream and if is normal or not, I remain my humble self, Usman Salame, From Afri NOTES, Africa multipurpose portal for Africa global tiers. Go here to Submit your business on directory
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In all stay safe and best remain joyful and put away all the false thoughts you have ever heard concerning wet dreams, as web dreams are normal with humans, is biological, and something to be joyful of for being sexually active
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