How I Work As A Bar Man In A Brothel Hotel, Dated A Prostitute. My Story
Life was so hard on me, was looking for job ups and down not until I landed a job as a Barman in a brothel hotel, ends up dating a prostitute, and almost died from an overdose on daily sex, as in, I was having sex for almost 3 to 7 times daily. My story, My Mistake, My lessons. A Nigerian man shares his story with us. Afrinotes News
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How I Work As A Bar Man In A Brothel Hotel, Dated A Prostitute. Here is his story. Happy Read
The Hardship was real, as poverty multiples in Nigeria, so Olosho also known as a prostitute ( Sex worker) business is booming across Nigeria and the world at large.
Most girls into it now call it different names. They don’t call it prostitution anymore. some call it hustling, runs, jab, etc.
My Stories Goes Like This
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and from dropping my CV here and there but all to no avail. No job was fort coming
I was so broke at a point that I can’t even feed, so decided to go to Ikorodu area of Lagos Nigeria to stay with my friends there at least not to die of hunger
The friends I came to stay with within Ikorodu Lagos Nigeria happens to be yahoo boys (Gee boys) ..while I was there they took me to one hotel to watch a football match.
The Hotel was located at Itamaga and it’s popularly called ” BE HAPPY” …for those familiar with the area in Ikorodu Lagos Nigeria
As we were about to go in inside the hotel just to watch an ongoing football match, I saw a vacancy board that read (Supervisor And Bar Man Wanted)
So I decided to check out on the job, left and brought my CV, and apply for the supervisor position just to be informed that the supervisor position has been taken, but the Barman position is still vacant
Haven look for a job for years after my graduation, I have no choice, but to ask about the salary level for the Barman and I was told, they pay 20 thousand Naira.. as of then, the amount was cool to me.
So I apply for the Barman position, was accepted, and started working immediately, I was posted to the V.I.P section as the barman
There I was honest with my transactions, works, how I attend to customers, and even the prostitutes working in the hotel so I quickly made friends with balling guys most of them Gee Boys (Yahoo Yahoo Boys).
My salary was 20k but I was making at least 5k daily. People would come and drink, and then ask me to take whatever I want and drink too
I would skip the drink and keep the money, some would tip me sometimes 2k some times less some time higher. I was enjoying life and saving. Apart from staying up all night every day and doing account of the bar the next morning, I work less
Ladies Mostly Young Work At The Hotel As Sex Workers
But the hotel was a LovePeddler house too.. ladies work there as runs girls. I found out that they pay rent every day to the hotel owner.
The cheapest room there is two thousand naira while the most expensive is 4k..(the 4k room comes with A.C.) There were at least up to 25 girls living there permanently.
While some come and go, but take the hotel as they working office, polices also comes daily to take their daily fees and weekly fees from the hotel owner
Men rich, poor, small, big, handsome, ugly, neat, diety would come around, choose their spec of girl, settle price, and head to the room to have sex with the prostitute.
I learned that some ladies have been there for more than 10 years, they all have nicknames, you will hear names like Blessing, Happiness, Favour, Angel, e.t.c. normally the girls don’t answer their real name, they mostly use fake names
And they paying rent of at least 2k every day, but there are making money, short time with these ladies ranges from 1k to 5k depending on how she is while overnight is 10k – 20k
On a bad day, these ladies get at least 10 short times sexing, and one overnight which means they make thousands of naira every day.
Due to some of them spend their money on designer clothes and the latest wears competing With each other, few of them also send money across to their family and few have children they left behind which they normally send money across to them
What I also got to find out is that this prostitute has boyfriends too. the one they allow to penetrate them without the use of a condom and the funny thing is that the man/guy is aware that they are runs, girls
They spend on their boyfriend and he dare not cheat on them..have seen scenarios where guys marry some or have a baby with her, most time they spend heavily on their boyfriend
How I Started Dating A Prostitute
After about two months I have been working as a Barman in the hotel, I started getting a visit from this particular prostitute, she would come to my bar during the day when there are fewer customers and buy a coca-cola drink,
She likes coca-cola a lot, she will spend time talking with me and in some cases, she would drop one thousand naira and asked me to keep the change
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The hotel has a restaurant too, she would order food and asked them to bring it to me, the gullible me thought I have found my destiny helper as I no longer spend on food not knowing that I was being pulled into the traps of the devil.
My co-workers then were telling me she likes me, the truth is all the babes there liked me. cos I was naturally blessed with Good looks.
There were lots of pretty young girls in that Hotel, girls from 17 years upward .this babe that kept buying me stuff wasn’t the prettiest but she was my spec plus she was a big girl too
She uses the latest iPhone then, dresses well and classy, that if you met her on a normal day outside the hotel block u would have mistaken her for a saving Senator’s daughter, with her dress and style
We Got close over time, and one day I asked her ” But babe pls tell me why do u choose to do runs (Sex Worker) kind of business?..
Her Story!! was like this
According to her she claimed she grew up in a poor family and things were very tough back then, she tried learning a skill or trade but her boss was always wicked to her and she would end up leaving there
So things got so tough that she couldn’t afford to buy a pad during her menstruation, she later had to run to a friend who was doing well at that time.
The friend promised her she would take her to Lagos to work. When they arrived in Lagos she brought her to the hotel instead and the babe confessed that she’s into runs ..and urge her to do it too.
The Prostitute Who Introduce Her Into The Work
Told her “No one will know, do the work and make small money and go and start a business In Benin or ex where”.
Her friend urged ..and that was how she started, she said sometimes dirty mechanics or even tout boys will sleep with her and she had no choice but to allow them of a curse she needed the money.
She said sometimes some of them will use drugs and almost tear her v-spot. but that later she got used to it. I felt bad for her ….. What do you think? I feel like helping her, but with my condition then, there is nothing I can do to help her situation.
How I Work As A Bar Man In A Brothel Hotel
At the hotel, u work every day and you only get a day off a week, during my off days off my prostitute girlfriend will beg me not to go home that I should rest there
She would then book a room for me to spend my break… Pls understand the owner of the hotel is one difficult man and he must not find out you are dating any runs babe (prostitute) because he will believe you are giving her his money, so we kept it on the low key but all her friends and my friends know that she and I are dating
I would be in that room and she will come and check on me from time to time, with food and drinks, she was taking care of me, she would buy me milk saying I need to regain my strength, this babe was not asking for sex, she was taking her time with me.
Then one day I had issues with my supervisor and I was suspended, the supervisor was jealous of our relationship and was always looking for fault in everything I do.
I was suspended for 3 days and that means they will deduct one-week money from my twenty thousand naira monthly salary
This babe lodged me in another hotel, gave me 10k saying I should use it to replace the money they will deduct, she then left her hotel to come to spend the three days suspension with me..and sex happened.
That Ws How My Sex Adventure With The Prostitute Begin
After the first sex with her, somehow immediately after that encounter, I lost total interest in the job
She was buying me everything from clothes to boxers to designer shoes, she even bought me a gold chain (real Gold) and money gifting. so I started feeling too big for the job that used to be my everything.
She told me that I should quit the job and look for a better one as the one I’m doing is below my standards, I believed her and quitted, then she told me she’s quitting prostitution too that she loves me, so she has no choice but to quite the sex work
Then she had like 300k (Three hundred thousand) in her bank account and there is a house in Benin also belonging to her and she was the opinion we relocate to Edo State, Benin city all in Nigeria.
That was how I and olosho (The Sex Worker) relocated to Benin to start living as couples… we live together for months and I was having sex everyday enjoying myself then.
I just wake up and have sex then sleep .. life was sweet not knowing I was killing my destiny… After bout 3 months we finished spending the money in her account.
And we were becoming broke ..that was when I realized I need a job again.. then one day during my job hunt I came back and she wasn’t around, when she came back she brought food, provisions, and stuff and even gave me 5k to get something for myself.
I asked her where she got the money from and she confessed that she went to sleep with one rich man like that in Benin…
She begged me to please allow her to continue going to see the man that the man promised to fund her business plans which I agreed…
After a while we started having issues I realized she did not like me as she uses to she will say words like ” You were not like this when you were in Lagos “.
I did not understand what she meant until I saw myself in a mirror one day, oh my God I was looking old and ugly all my beauty has disappeared and gone
I look peated I almost cried. I immediately left for Lagos the next week. And after years of fasting and praying and deliverance, I started looking better, to those that do say sex has no consequences I hope you learn. A Thing or Two from my story
In All, my discovering About Sex Worker (Prostitution)
Is that prostitution in whatever form may continue to be lucrative till possible eternity? Men generally, will always want sex, so a good percentage of our income will go to satisfying the sex workers in exchange for sex.
You as you give them money, them as prostitute offers you their body, just like that. The business continues Whether that’d be with wives, brothel hookers, runs website hookers, porn, girlfriends, FWBs, escorts, or whatever name you call it, science has made it known to the world, that in general men use love to get sex and women use sex to get money, in whatever way, all seem alike
But Be Positive, have sexual purity, have respect for your body and soul, have respect toward the opposite sex, sex is not to be sold, but prostitution has come to stay with us. Be wise and learn from my mistake
And lastly, I have discovered that in general, It is so tempting and easy for women to fuck for money, that is offer sex for money. It’s just a matter of morality and that doesn’t mean anything for some people especially in the face of poverty, greed, and laziness. May God HELP US All
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