Mother’s day and the growing syndrome of Baby mama
It’s almost Mother’s Day! Or Is It Mothers’ Day as the global world send a heartwarming message to all the mothers out there
Today the global world is celebrating mothers, with the increase of single moms and dads among us, do we support single moms or all moms, including the married and later divorced among them
We can, of course, do both, when this happens, the men on the other hands are fond of blaming the female for being wrong and the female is always optimistic that they were never wrong, so the fate of them bing single mom and dad are highly welcome and celebrated
The world will spend billion this week to celebrate mothers, some to buy flowers, brunches, cars, golds, new homes for moms, earrings, and many more, all to honor some particular moms.
Millions of other moms need help, with nobody to celebrate them, not even their kids, the society, and the government of the nation’s where they come from.
It’s a mother’s day celebration and all moms should be celebrated
Let this Mother’s day call for the world to united and find impactful ways to reduce the baby mama stream, is worrisome that many women and men’s of today do prefer the single baby father and mother syndrome, in Nigeria where I come from is super crazy and the numbers are now in their millions
With the high rate of divorce cases rampaging the world, to effective educating the millions of girls not in school and essentially ending female literacy.
Over a million women or more in Africa and Asia suffer needlessly from untreated fistula, which can be corrected with surgery that costs about $586 US dollars, which 99% percent of these women were unable to afford and feel helpless
So before you as a woman and possibly as a man thinks of becoming a single baby father. Below are the 8 disadvantages of having a baby mama
For those reading me outside Africa, Baba mama is a slag use mostly by Africa nationals to describe a single mum or married woman with a Child(ren)
And this section of this post goes to those guys out there who believe having a baby mama is more restful, secure, sure, and enjoyable than having a wife.
Is not as easy as you think until you find yourself into it, so is best you read, learn, and avoiding finding your self in it, some attending of life can be avoided while your plan work to reach such attunement at the right time, following the world acceptable norms
Peaceful marriage, with the responsibilities of two, the man and woman remain the best way to build a family and enjoy life peacefully
Though the high rate of a broken home, separations, and divorces even from high profiles has made a lot of people, both men and female more fearful of marriage, thereby clinging to baby mamahood
There are more challenges and difficulties when you have a baby mama which might even lead you to an early grave which I will be highlighting here.
Here are the reasons why I believe having a baby mama is a bad idea… an idea you should kill of from your mind
These ideas are from men’s perspective, not necessarily to all baby mama’s
1. You’ll have a whorish woman to deal with
In the case of having a kid(s) with a random woman or woman, if you don’t marry her, she is not exclusive to you, and if she is not married to another man, a lot of men where subject her to abuse
This causes depressions to a lot of baba mama, making them hating their baby father for putting them in such a state
Some of them will later marry, while some will give birth to more men out there, so the possibilities of you you having other baby daddies to compete with are high, which you may not be able to handle.
Do you know that a man is reduced to nothing just using contending with a whorish woman? A man with a whorish woman always goes to the grave early, when compared with a man with a peaceful woman
The ways of such a woman will make you sick and she will be like rottenness in your bones.
Moreover trying to persuade her to stick with you only will yield no fruit as she will only refuse.
When a man tries to tame a whorish woman, there will be no rest.
2. Your child maybe maybe not, be poorly cared for
Besides the irresponsible mother, such men are likely to be less responsible with child support for their kid(s), so whatever you pay for your kid(s) will also be shared with the irresponsible baby mama’s needs
3. You might have a scornful child
If your child is in the hand of the mother, the baby mama, growing up in such a household could be detrimental to your child to having a well-balanced life.
Also considering the high tendency that women fall for bad boys, your co-baby daddies, and boys, so your baby mama may be in another relationship with drug dealers, scam artists, and other ill social vices common these days with our men.
Exposing your child to these men when they come to visit her, will teach your child crime and cause him/her to be scornful, and such a child will not be a joy to you, his father if care if not taken
He/she will tend to despise upright things and cleave to atrocious ones.
He/she will despise you as well and would hardly listen to your corrections as a distant baby father
4. You may contract sexually transmitted diseases/infectious (STDs/STIs)
If by chance you sleep with her again or go about sleeping with several women, without observing sexual purity and protections. You might end up having health problems such as STDs/STIs.
5. You will contend with an unapologetic manipulative woman
A whorish woman perpetuates evil but will only rub her hands and clean her mouth and say, “I’ve done nothing wrong.”
That is how she is and that is who she will be to you. Besides poisoning your child’s mind about you, she may also deny you the right to your child(ren). This comes mostly when you fail to meet her requirements and there’s very little you can do about it.
6. Your life becomes more difficult
You’re more likely to have difficulty in various aspects of your life, financially, socially, spiritually, and mentally if you are too emotional about everything going on with you and your baby mama
7. You might get into trouble
Your baby mama stands a chance of giving birth to other babies for more men and you may have to battle jealous co-baby daddies and might end up in trouble due to a fallout with them.
8. Your reputation might suffer
Society will deem you irresponsible and you’ll be shamefully categorized as one of the grown irresponsible fools around. your neighbor and people will try to look down on you and even down on your baby where ever he or she is
On pure thought is it worth avoiding baby mama, if you are not yet ready for marriage, be hopeful, work smarter until you are ready with the right partner, both of you should learn to give each other peace, love, support, and God’s fearing. Avoid being a single father or mother
Let’s the youth and young ladies stop deceive themselves. Marriage being natural is more restful and enjoyable than having a baby mama. and when it comes to marriage, family, and building, the success of a couple is 80% in the hands of the women. that is where there are more refers to helper, the home builders
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Conclusion On: Mother’s day and the growing syndrome of Baby mama
Stop looking at those with failed marriages if you’re a man driven by bad news and learn how to lead a home properly, then every other thing will fall into place. so be peaceful within your heart of your soul, always sees the good in your partner and every other thing will fall for your good
Happy global mothers day to all the Mothers in the world, last week was Nurse week and we celebrate them all. from all of us AfriNOTES with waves of Thanks