What Happened To The Kinsmen Brides And Grooms Background Check: Before Marriage
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These days the union called marriage is now one of the most abused union ever, a lady will willingly work into marriage with the mentality if her husband do this or that, she will just file for divorce and divorce him one hand
This is not being the ladies issues as men also have their own, in all, both the majority of men and women of today don’t place value again in marriage aims the high rate of divorce around the world
So right on this article, I just want to take you back to the better days, a time when if marriage will proceed and hold is completely in the hands of the kinsmen, not just literally in the hand of the bride and the groom, or the parents of both party, but indirectly in the hand of the kinsmen
Though I can’t speak for all tribes in Nigeria, as such practice is mostly of Igbo tribe, Idoma, and some part of Kogi, all in West Africa Nigeria
Here before a marriage proposal is accepted, both lady (bride) and man (groom) kinsmen have to go and do some family background check of each party
The outcome of the background check will then determine if the marriage will have a go-ahead order or should be canceled
Then Kinsmen brides and grooms background check. In most cases, the girl has accepted to marry the man and has told her family, the man in question has also made his intentioned known to the girl family
Possibly the man has made his first to the second visit to the girl’s family… And the girl family in question has accepted the man visit, but have not made their stand on the marriage
This is followed by a tradition in which the bride family will appoint a few members of the bride kinsmen to go and do a family background check of the man (The Groom) to be family
In some cases, a date will be set aside and the man and his family will be informed..in most cases, the bride kinsmen will move without pre-information to the man in question
And they will visit the man village and make some background check.. which their finding with determine the final stand if they will give the man a go-ahead or cancel the Marriage proposal
This is a single tradition that has contributed to building a responsible home and family, family background checks and balances, was one thing that made marriages works, but these days. Such tradition is no longer honored and the union called marriage is now over abused like never before.
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